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CREST, Ill., Nov. 22 — The scent of turkey, dressing and pound cake
hung on the last flicker of
daylight.
Roderick and Gloria Bashir and their daughters, Samaiyah, 13, and
Taahira, 11, waited until sunset, at 4:27 p.m. Then, after saying a
prayer to Allah, they gathered around the dining room table with other
relatives, Muslim, Christian and Jewish, offering thanks in their
suburban Chicago home.
They praised God for his goodness, for life itself and for their
blessings on this day of thanksgiving. But for Mr. and Mrs. Bashir, who
are Muslim, the day was more than an observance of Thanksgiving. This
year the holiday fell during Ramadan, a monthlong fast for Muslims
during which they cannot eat before sunset.
With the sun gone and the family's fast broken, the Bashirs and their
relatives proceeded with the annual carving of turkey, the pouring of
gravy and the spooning of cranberry sauce. Mrs. Bashir has prepared
dinner every Thanksgiving for 20 years, but this year it was delayed so
they could keep with their religious beliefs and family tradition.
"We see it as Muslims, as an opportunity, given that most of our
family members are not Muslims, to bring ourselves and Christians and
other friends together on this day to celebrate in the spirit of
thankfulness," said Mr. Bashir, 44, who has practiced Islam for 26
years. "For Muslims, that is not exclusive to Thanksgiving."
"We don't see this as a celebration necessarily, but an
observance of a cultural norm in America that doesn't conflict with the
Muslim belief in giving thanks to Allah," said Mr. Bashir, 44, a
vice president of a union local of Service Employees International.
While some Muslim Americans believe that Thanksgiving conflicts with
their religion, many, like the Bashirs, observe the holiday, saying
that, of all the American holidays, Thanksgiving is most in harmony with
the teachings of Islam.
"The spirit of Thanksgiving is probably the one celebration in
the American calendar that really goes to the heart of Islam," said
Safaa Zarzour, 37, principal of the Universal School, an Islamic school
in Bridgeview, Ill. "The spirit of Thanksgiving represents the very
spirit of Islam, that is to always and continually be thankful to
God."
"Some Muslims will not recognize the tradition, meaning the
ritual of Thanksgiving, because they fear that if they do so they will
be inventing something new in their religion," said Mr. Zarzour,
whose family planned dinner at a restaurant.
"Others feel that you create a holiday most of the time when you
are feeling guilty about something," he added. "Many Muslims
will not mark Mother's Day with a special anything because they feel
that you are supposed to honor your mom every day of the year."
But other Muslim Americans view the holiday in much the same way as
other Americans do. And so as turkeys were carved and another slice of
pound cake or sweet potato pie found its way to a saucer, it was no
different in the homes of many Muslim Americans on Thanksgiving Day,
particularly given the difficulties the nation has faced since Sept. 11.
"I've had a special feeling of thankfulness given that Sept. 11
situation, whenever I am traveling or when I'm with my family," Mr.
Bashir said. "I feel that it's a special time and I don't take it
for granted as I have in the past."
Clyde El-Amin, a college administrator in Chicago who has been a
Muslim for about 30 years, does not see a barrier between his faith and
observance of the holiday.
"Most of the people I know who are Muslims are African-Americans
who are indigenous Americans," said Mr. Amin, 53. "They don't
have cultural barriers."
He added, "And they know doggoned well it's not the only day
that we give thanks."
Mr. Amin said it was fortunate that Thanksgiving and Ramadan overlap,
because "Ramadan is also a time of reflecting on a number of
things, including how grateful we are to be to God."
Not a bite of his family's feast is eaten before someone has said a
prayer and given thanks.
Even so, Mr. Amin said, the holiday, "in my mind, is not a
religious holiday."
"My family just happens to be a God-conscious family, he said,
adding that several religions are represented in his family. "We're
not going to get together and not pray before we eat."
For Khalil Abdullah, 29, an elementary school teacher in Fort Worth,
Thanksgiving also has to include football. Mr. Abdullah, his wife,
Naimah, and their four sons spent the day at his mother-in-law's house
in Dallas.
"But for me it goes deeper than it's just something that I've
always done, than it's an American tradition," said Mr. Abdullah,
who has been a Muslim for 10 years. "It's family. It's the spirit
of thanksgiving, the spirit of being grateful to God for what he has
given us all year. And like most Americans we will enjoy being with our
family, good food and football."
"I just don't see why anyone would think that this is against
Islam," Mr. Abdullah said. "But there are Muslims, and they
certainly are not wrong, who tend to avoid celebrating any holiday that
had not been practiced by Prophet Muhammad or in the Koran."
At the Bashir home, nearly a dozen relatives stood around a table
spread with macaroni and cheese, turkey and all the trimmings, each
person giving thanks for something. There was thanks for a new marriage,
thanks for being a Muslim, and, from Sabreen McKamby, 7, thanks for
"a roof over my head."
Samaiyah, the Bashirs' eldest daughter, said, "I'm thankful to
have a mother who can cook."
Everyone laughed, and soon they dug in.